7 habits that make people dislike you

Habits that make people dislike you

Do you ever feel like people don’t like you? Relationships can be incredibly difficult to navigate. You may find some people look the other way when you’re around and you can’t help but wonder why. 

Disclaimer note 

If you can relate to any of these signs, please do not take this feedback as an attack on your character. This video was meant to be a self-improvement guide for those of you who have been feeling a little stuck.

There are some things that you can do to improve yourself and your likability, there are other parts of you that you have to accept. Here are 7 habits that make people dislike you. 

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1. Being fake 

You have probably heard the phrase, be yourself. As for advice when you are meeting new people. This allows you to show how colorful and unique you are. On the other hand, when you are trying to be someone you are not it can come across as authentic and make some people wary of you and your intentions. It is better to be your authentic self as you will find that people that do like you, like you for who you are. Being yourself doesn’t necessarily mean that you’ll be the most popular in the room. You’ll find that the friendships that come out of it are much stronger than those built on a facade. 

2. Being one-sided 

Conversations and relationships should be two-way streets. It is no secret that being selfish, taking advantage of others, and not letting others speak will make them just like you. The reverse can be true as well. Letting someone else do all the talking and provide no input from your side is typically less favorable. Having back and forth conversations letting others speak their perspective and you respond on your own is better than a one-sided interrogation. basically, create dialogue instead of a monologue. 

3. Not smiling 

Smiling has numerous benefits outside of social situations, including improving your overall mood. Did you know that smiling can make you more attractive to other people? It can make you appear more approachable and friendly than if you are frowning. It can be hard to know what your face is doing, you may find it makes a difference in how people interact with you. After all, people pay close attention to your non-verbal expressions. 

4. Getting too personal right away

As social beings, we rely on others for support, and the closer we are to people, the more we are willing to let them in. But, timing is also important. Telling your best friend of 10 years something really personal is different from a person you met 10 minutes ago. Doing this can be off-putting and can lead a person to judge you in a way that someone who knows your full story wouldn’t. Let someone get to know you first and understand you as a person before letting them in all your secrets. 

5. Bragging  

It can be nice to flex some of your wonderful achievements on others there’s a time and a place for everything. And bragging can be a huge turn-off when used in the wrong situations. Talking too much about yourself and your achievements can come off as self-centeredness and create a sense of superiority that drives others away. While this may seem obvious do know that this isn’t the only way to brag. Humble bragging is essentially the same action, although it is veiled by self-criticizing a positive attribute about themselves. 

For example, if you tell someone what you care too much about a project and that’s why your group members have a difficult time getting along with you. You are essentially boasting that you have a great work ethic, but are disguising it as self-deprecation. 

6. Being threatening 

A person can feel threatened by you for reasons beyond the obvious. Perhaps you have something that the other person does not and jealousy comes into play. Maybe they are insecure about something within themselves and project it onto you. So unless you are actively doing something that could potentially harm a person, sometimes people may dislike you because of something that they are lacking. 

But this isn’t the only way that you can appear threatening. Your body language, tone of voice, and what you talk about are important as well. Making sure you keep your body language open and working to make your peers more comfortable can help. 

7. Being yourself

This might surprise you because earlier we mentioned being yourself. But it is true. Sometimes being who you are will turn others away. This can be through many factors. In many cases, certain people have different preferences that may not align with your personality. But, it is important to know that you can improve your personality especially if you’re doing something harmful, it should not come at the expense of pretending to be someone else, as we said at the start. 

Sometimes you may just be incompatible with certain groups, and that is okay. You can improve what you want to change, but also accept that you cannot. When you are your authentic self, you might drive some people away. But you may also pull in people who accept and love you for who you are, and you may find that it will attract others to you and build connections much stronger than the other way. After all, the quality of friendship is more important than quantity. 

Can you relate to any of these habits that make people dislike you mentioned? Let us know in the comments below if you like this article. And make sure to share it with others.  

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